NOW YOU ARE A MOTHER

NOW YOU ARE A MOTHER

Author: Duha Raoof Shaheen
Publisher: Darussalam
Cover: Hardback 

This book has given an overview of the mother's role and touched on the basics of raising babies and small children. Whilst motherhood is one of the most rewarding of roles, it is also a very complex role that brings many trials and challenges that cannot be covered fully in a single volume.

It is hoped that having read this book, readers will go beyond its parameters to learn all they can about how to care for their infants. In the teachings of Islam, the voices of experience provided by our own mothers and grandmothers, and the exchange of ideas and tips with other parents, new mothers can find guidelines to follow as they embark upon the journey of motherhood. The help and advice of doctors, public health nurses and other professionals may also be added to the mother's "support system."

Over and above all that, the Muslim mother can and must put her trust in Allah and seek His help and guidance.

buku ini lengkap memberi panduan kpd bakal ibubapa supaya tidak rasa 'blur' apabila anak lahir kelak 

penyampaian memenuhi semua aspek kesihatan, kerohanian seperti yang disarankan oleh Al quran dan Sunnah. Susunan topik mengikut umur secara berperingkat supaya mudah difahami oleh kita.

buku sangat comel, warna warni, hardback, glossy paper.


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sambungan..

Tahniah!
Berjaya 'breastfeeding', bukan mudah untuk menyusukan anak, sangat memerlukan sokongan dan kemahuan serta kesungguhan yang tinggi. Juga sentiasa berdoa agar Allah swt mudahkan kita. 

Jadi bila pula waktu yang sesuai untuk berhenti menyusu?

Jom baca Now You Are A Mother
(m/s 174)

untuk perkongsian bersama, saya nak kongsi beberapa halaman dalam buku NOW YOU ARE A MOTHER ni..memang jatuh hati nak baca sebab sangat menarik persembahan dan isinya...

jom review

children and television

the prophet saw and the children

compassion of the prophet saw towards children

teaching children the etiquette of asking permission to enter a room

how the prophet saw corrected children's mistakes

thank you

betul tak? jom miliki buku ini senaskah 

the muslim parent's guide to the early years - TEETH

TEETH!

buka mulut anak dan tengok gigi mereka sekarang 

..sebaris gigi putih je, takde hitam-hitam atau rongak... atau sebaliknya ?

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Sharing..

kebersihan gigi juga merupakan didikan asas yang sangat PENTING dalam pendidikan anak-anak selari dengan didikan AQIDAH.

justeru, begitulah dalam kebersihan gigi anak-anak kita. Perlu kita ambil berat , jangan meringankannya sehingga anak baru berusia 2 ke 3 tahun gigi sudah rongak, sakit gigi dsbnya.

petikan daripada buku THE MUSLIM PARENT'S GUIDE TO THE EARLY YEARS

WHEN to start?

as soon as your baby grows their first tooth .(etc: my kids all of them grew their first tooth at 10-12 months)

HOW?
first, we need to show them how to do this most effectively. when they grow older and start to want more independence, then they will want to brush their own teeth.

***if your child is NOT so conscientious about cleaning their teeth then the following TIPS should help:

1. EXPLAIN the importance of brushing their teeth
2. allow them to PICK up their own toothbrush and toothpaste
3. MOTIVATE them (masyaAllah , safiyyah you have your own pink toothbrush!)
4. always PRAISE your child when they brush their teeth
5. if you have more than one child, they can brush their teeth together as children like to IMITATE others
6. be a ROLE MODEL and brush your teeth in front of them as well

**it is recommended practice to use siwaak (miswak) as this was practice of the Prophet saw.

in sha Allah semoga Allah memudahkan urusan kita dalam mendidik anak...nak cari kayu sugi ni, ingat parents are ROLE MODEL.

PERKONGSIAN

perkongsian @ persoalan

setelah bergelar IBU/UMMI/MAMA/ayah/abi/papa , rutin harian agak sibuk dan bagi yang bekerjaya lagi sibuk (sekadar pendapat)
jadi,

bila nak membaca / mencari ILMU terutamanya dalam DIDIKAN anak-anak?

banyak buku tersusun di rak/ atas meja, bila nak membaca?

tiada jalan mudah dalam didikan anak-anak melainkan kita sebagai ibubapa sendiri sedang belajar untuk mengajar!
setuju?

secara umumnya kita akan mencari jawapan bila timbul masalah/persoalan. contoh:

bila mula ajarkan anak mengaji al quran?
bila umur yang ideal untuk ajak anak solat di masjid?

justeru, ini lebih mudah diaplikasikan dalam keluarga, lebih praktikal, berbanding dengan berusaha menghabiskan senaskah buku dalam masa sehari tapi tidak dapat diaplikasikan semua dalam masa sehari. setuju?

itu sahaja perkongsian hari ini  penuh dengan ???

jawapan sangat subjektif tiada yang betul atau salah , tiada yang tepat.. ini kerana semua yang di atas adalah PROSES tarbiyyah berterusan.

terima kasih.