sedar atau tidak punca kemarahan
kita terhadap anak-anak adalah kerana masalah KOMUNIKASI. Kadang-kadang kita
tidak meletakkan level PEMAHAMAN kita di tempat anak-anak sebaliknya kita
mengharapkan anak-anak pula yang patut memahami sesuatu itu tanpa
memberi penerangan terlebih dahulu. Sungguh tidak adilkan kita terhadap
anak-anak..
(contoh pengalaman yang menulis ini juga, dah marah anak baru nak fikir) ... yang sebaiknya PAUSE dahulu sebelum marah anak dan FIKIR balik , logik ke aku nak marah anak-anak ini?
saya petik daripada buku THE MUSLIM PARENT'S GUIDE TO THE EARLY YEARS
COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR CHILD
- most successful ways of achieving a GOOD RELATIONSHIP with our child is EFFECTIVE communication.
- speak to them with LOVE and KINDNESS rather than talking down to them
- be CALM in our manner and EXERCISE patience, so they too will be calm and patient, in sha Allah
- important NOT to be quick to lose our TEMPER or take out our FRUSTRATIONS on our child
after all, they are still learning so it is better to FORGIVE their little misdemeanours (small mistake).
PLAY with them , TELL them you LOVE them, HUG them and SMILE with them!
jzkllh khair
(contoh pengalaman yang menulis ini juga, dah marah anak baru nak fikir) ... yang sebaiknya PAUSE dahulu sebelum marah anak dan FIKIR balik , logik ke aku nak marah anak-anak ini?
saya petik daripada buku THE MUSLIM PARENT'S GUIDE TO THE EARLY YEARS
COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR CHILD
- most successful ways of achieving a GOOD RELATIONSHIP with our child is EFFECTIVE communication.
- speak to them with LOVE and KINDNESS rather than talking down to them
- be CALM in our manner and EXERCISE patience, so they too will be calm and patient, in sha Allah
- important NOT to be quick to lose our TEMPER or take out our FRUSTRATIONS on our child
after all, they are still learning so it is better to FORGIVE their little misdemeanours (small mistake).
PLAY with them , TELL them you LOVE them, HUG them and SMILE with them!
jzkllh khair
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